And in top of that, you're are running out time for this simple task, just because you don't find the right answer..
Here is an approach, how to solve this problem. Probably not the perfect solution, but it works ..!
To get started, you need to handle 3 parts in your module: /yournamespace/modulename/sql/modulename_setup/install-0.1.0.php
/yournamespace/modulename/Resource/Eav/Mysql4/setup.php
/yournamespace/modulename/etc/config.xml
So let's start with the 1st part:
(Hint: if you update your module, name the script 'update-x.x.x.php')
<?php
/**
 * Add my_attribute values 
 * example by http://magento4newbies.blogspot.com.
 *
 */
$installer = $this;
$installer->startSetup();
$installer->addAttribute('catalog_product', 'my_attribute_date', array(
    'group'             => 'My Attribute Set',
    'label'             => 'My Attribute Date',
    'type'              => 'datetime',
    'input'             => 'date',
    'backend'           => 'eav/entity_attribute_backend_datetime',
    'frontend'          => '',
    'visible'           => true,
    'required'          => false,
    'user_defined'      => true,
    'searchable'        => false,
    'filterable'        => false,
    'comparable'        => false,
    'visible_on_front'  => true,
    'visible_in_advanced_search' => false,
    'unique'            => false,
    'global'            => Mage_Catalog_Model_Resource_Eav_Attribute::SCOPE_STORE,
));
$installer->endSetup();
//For textfield
'input' => 'text',
'type' => 'text',
//For textarea
'input' => 'textarea',
'type' => 'text',
//For date field
'input' => 'date',
'type' => 'datetime',
//For select list 
'input' => 'select',
'type' => 'text',
//For yes/no
'input' => 'boolean',
'type' => 'int',
<?php
/**
 * Yournamespace_Modulename_Model_Resource_Eav_Mysql4_Setup
 * example by http://magento4newbies.blogspot.com.
 *
 */
class Yournamespace_Modulename_Model_Resource_Eav_Mysql4_Setup extends Mage_Eav_Model_Entity_Setup
{
 
     /**
     * Prepare catalog attribute values to save
     * From: Mage_Catalog_Model_Resource_Setup
     *
     * @param array $attr
     * @return array
     */
    protected function _prepareValues($attr)
    {
        $data = parent::_prepareValues($attr);
        $data = array_merge($data, array(
            'apply_to'                      => $this->_getValue($attr, 'apply_to'),
            'frontend_input_renderer'       => $this->_getValue($attr, 'input_renderer'),
            'is_comparable'                 => $this->_getValue($attr, 'comparable', 0),
            'is_configurable'               => $this->_getValue($attr, 'is_configurable', 1),
            'is_filterable'                 => $this->_getValue($attr, 'filterable', 0),
            'is_filterable_in_search'       => $this->_getValue($attr, 'filterable_in_search', 0),
            'is_global'                     => $this->_getValue(
                $attr,
                'global',
                Mage_Catalog_Model_Resource_Eav_Attribute::SCOPE_WEBSITE
            ),
            'is_html_allowed_on_front'      => $this->_getValue($attr, 'is_html_allowed_on_front', 0),
            'is_searchable'                 => $this->_getValue($attr, 'searchable', 0),
            'is_used_for_promo_rules'       => $this->_getValue($attr, 'used_for_promo_rules', 0)
            'is_visible'                    => $this->_getValue($attr, 'visible', 1),
            'is_visible_on_front'           => $this->_getValue($attr, 'visible_on_front', 1),
            'is_wysiwyg_enabled'            => $this->_getValue($attr, 'wysiwyg_enabled', 0),
            'is_visible_in_advanced_search' => $this->_getValue($attr, 'visible_in_advanced_search', 0),
            'position'                      => $this->_getValue($attr, 'position', 0),
            'used_for_sort_by'              => $this->_getValue($attr, 'used_for_sort_by', 0),
            'used_in_product_listing'       => $this->_getValue($attr, 'used_in_product_listing', 0),
        ));
        return $data;
    }
}
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<config>
    <modules>
        <yournamespace_modulename>
            <version>x.x.x</version> 
        </yournamespace_modulename>
    </modules>
    <global>
        <resources>
            <yournamespace_modulename_setup>
                <setup>
                    <module>Yournamespace_Modulename</module>
                    <class>Yournamespace_Modulename_Model_Resource_Eav_Mysql4_Setup</class>
                </setup>
            </yournamespace_modulename_setup>
        </resources>
    </global>
</config>
Now when you check your attributes within the Magento Admin GUI (Catalog->Attributes->Manage Attributes), you see 
is_filterable, is_visible, is_visible_on_front, is_html_allowed_on_front and the other parameters set to the same value as in the setup script.
